Building Character
I live in a house built over 100 years ago. The house has charm and 100 plus year old
cast iron drain pipes. Although previous
occupants improved and changed and modernized, projects cannot be evaded. And some projects that you thought were
finished need to be revamped.
Case in point, the powder room under the
staircase. New floor, paint, sink,
vanity, medicine cabinet, faucet, hardware, and toilet installed years
ago. However, the toilet leaked into the
basement. We concluded that the wax seal
failed. So, after gathering all the
necessary tools and parts, we removed the toilet only to find that the wax seal
wasn’t the problem.
The original to the house cast iron closet flange
had partially disengaged, unsecuring the toilet to the floor and drain
pipe. A new flange was not something we
prepared to replace. For days, the
toilet loitered in the hall, the bathroom door was kept closed, while we
scoured the internet for ideas about how to fix it. Finally, we found the information that would
hopefully save us from sawing through a four inch cast iron pipe.
The old house did not make it easy to remedy. Too much of the flange broke off to fit it
with a new collar. The old flange did
not want to release from the pipe.
However, we found a part made to replace in such situations. Just not in a local hardware store. We had to order it and wait.
The new flange arrived in the mail in the morning
and by the afternoon, the toilet was reinstalled. No more leaks. What a great feeling of accomplishment. It propelled us to replace an old toilet in
an upstairs bathroom the following weekend.
This toilet was probably installed sometime in the
‘50s or ‘60s. We, again, felt prepared
to tackle whatever the house threw at us.
That bathroom holds the other original to the house bathroom plumbing. We turn off the water and begin to
unscrew. Then, one nut on the floor bolt
decides it doesn’t want to budge.
An hour or so project becomes a weekend long project. The corroded metal was also stripped. The wrench had nothing to grip. Spray some loosener on it and wait,
again. The next day, it still doesn’t
turn. We break out the hacksaw.
After sawing through the bolt, the replacement
went smoothly. This cast iron flange
stayed intact. More feeling of
accomplishment. I am primed to tackle
the next project, which has more plumbing involved.
My plumbing adventure of the past couple of weeks
is a real life example of how to build a character. The situation a character faces may be
similar, but the problem is different, and therefore the solution is
different. The character grows, ready to
tackle the next task.
Small trials, achievements and failures, can be as
significant as life altering events to tweak character. One little thing develops the momentum to get
to the next little point, which, in turn, get to the big points. Before you realize it, a character has
surmounted a lot. It’s like that proverb
that talks about climbing a mountain one step at a time. A character builds one task at a time.
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